Springfield, Massachusetts (PressExposure) November 10, 2010 -- Bartholomew Hubert is a numerologist who works with many clients who are getting over failures in life. "Failure can sometimes be very hard to take," said Hubert. "Many people struggle to get past it. But, with the right tools, it can be much easier." Hubert was also one of the people who were present at the launch of the webpage - http://www.numerologist.com/articles/numerology/numerology-report/. It discusses what a Numerology Report is and how it can be used to help plan a life.
At some point in our lives, we realize that things won't always go as planned. No matter how much we want something, no matter how much we plan for it, things can still fall apart. Failure, after all, is an inevitable part of life. The important thing is that we learn to move on. It doesn't even matter what method you choose to help you get over failure. You can see a shrink, talk to a doctor or consult your numerology report if you want. The important thing is that your chosen method works for you.
The experience of going through failure can be likened to the experience of loss or bereavement. Let us say that you have worked on something all your life only to see it fall through. With its loss so did you loose all of the other things that were associated with it. Afterwards, you could find yourself going through the motions of grief such as - Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance.
You can go through those stages in the DABDA order or may find yourself going through a different order. Some people will even find that they missed certain stages or that some emotions were less significant than others. It is a personal process and we all go through it differently. What you have to remember though is that you will eventually get to acceptance.
So if you are in denial now or if you are in a deep depression don't try to repress it or dull it with something that can harm you. Just allow yourself to feel it. However, you should always keep in mind that acceptance is always on the horizon. You also need to learn how police yourself to a certain degree. If you are angry, be angry but do not allow it to ruin your relationships or do not allow it to hurt the people around you.
One way that helps you to get over your failure is talking. Talk to a friend who understands what you are going through. Talk to a shrink if you have to. Planning your future or getting started on Plan B is also a great way to pick your spirits up and to help you get over failure.
Numerology report can also be a great tool to help you find out what your next move in life should be. However, you are in no way limited to just that. There are so many other methods that are available to you. Make sure that you explore what your options are. Find what works for you the best and start from there. Always keep in mind failure does not define who you are. What defines you is how you move on.