Salem, Massachusetts (PressExposure) October 17, 2011 -- Men wondering how to attract the girl of their dreams have a new guide to help them stay afloat in the dating pool. The blog How to Get a Girl to Like You recently released a new system to that aims to help men become more attractive to women.
The foundation of the system has been described by How to Get a Girl to Like You blogger Susan Jennings as "a straightforward way to play hard to get in 2011." Jennings states that one of the most common mistakes men make during courtship is trying too hard or being too needy. Due to its importance in dating, Jennings made sure to write about this topic in the first few months since the launch of her blog, which debuted in August of this year.
Jennings notes that it's possible to play coy even if a man has strong feelings for another girl: "Most men who end up at How to Get a Girl to Like You are smart, funny and physically attractive men who simply lack the skill set to consistently attract the one they desire. A common pitfall I've noticed as a relationship coach is that men often come off as desperate -which is a turn-off for just about anyone."
How to Get a Girl to Like You's brand new guide recommends that men act nonchalant and care-free during the first few meetings or dates. "Acting somewhat disinterested while still being friendly and open is one of the most important ways to fan the flames of attraction", Jennings notes. She adds: "As many people know, first impressions are massively important in dating. Acting like you're a busy guy who may or may not be interested can really make you seem different from the other guys out there."
According to the guide, showing a bit of active disinterest can actually work in a man's favor. Jennings adds, "Giving off the impression that you like the person, but only as a friend often leads to the women chasing the man, which is a role reversal for many of the visitors to How to Get a Girl to Like You. There's no need to be rude of uncouth, but simply putting her in the friend zone is a great way to add a bit of power to the man's side of the equation which is often relegated to the role of the pursuer."
Men looking to increase their desirability by acting a bit more James Dean can read more by visiting How to Get a Girl to Like You at http://howtogetagirltolikeyoul.com.