Fuengirola, Espana (PressExposure) February 10, 2012 -- There are many guys out there that are shy to talk to ladies let alone set them up with a date, this is a problem that a shy guy faces day in day out, the saying goes, the journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step.
Every guy should realize that ladies are typically hard to study even for a smart guy, but the difference between a smart, confident guy and a shy one is that the former makes an approach while the latter never makes a move.
First things first, learn how to talk to women summon up the courage and make the first move, it is very difficult for the shy guy who has no confidence in his own ability, but sad to say you will never get a date if you do not make the first move, believe in yourself and try that first move.
Once you have taken that first step make your conversations genuine and real, this goes a long way to gradually get the feeling on how to talk to girls. Don't get carried away and sound like a Casanovas, you do not need to use pick up lines when talking with a lady, they do not work, let the lady talk first and relate your response to what she said, this will make them know you really are listening to what she is saying, girls love it when a guy responds to what she is saying.
Do not sound or look desperate to hook up with a girl, this is not the way on how to get girls, and do not over do it with romantic gestures, only use on rare special occasions, help her take her coat off, hold the car door for her, these gestures work better than buying her a huge bouquet of flowers just because you have watched too many movies and think this is the best way forward, you can overdo it.
Smart, clean, well dressed men is how to attract women, and good manners goes a long way in the dating game, there is nothing more effective than being natural when talking to a lady if you pretend to be something you are not, you definitely will not be at ease and this could jeopardize your target and how to pick up girls in the nicest possible way.
There is help out there for the guys who struggle with talking to or attracting women, and Gary Goldstein who is the UK's leading attraction expert explained "many guys do not have a belief system and do not rate themselves as someone who knows the first thing on how to get a girlfriend, in my academy I can change all that, I conduct attraction workshops and just by giving guys a few pointers I can change their attitude on the way they behave around women and they will get the confidence to approach and talk to women, it is not a problem, they need to believe in themselves and know they are good enough to attract the loveliest of women".
Great tips that work like magic especially for the shy guy take it on board, and learn a few tricks, and then the rest now lies with you.
For further information visit: http://www.socialattraction.co.uk