Fuengirola, Malaga Espana (PressExposure) March 07, 2012 -- Nearly every man on the planet would love to go out with a drop-dead gorgeous woman that men drool over, but sad to say most men never do. The hard truth is that a huge percentage of men make up excuses why they cannot approach a beautiful woman, it is pure and simple, lack of confidence.
The average man makes up fantasies about dating a woman like that, but if truth be known does not even try, they think by approaching a beautiful women they will not have the confidence and will not know how to talk to women, and also are fearful of getting tongue tied.
If you don't take the chance and you don't make the effort you will never know how to talk to girls. You would most definitely like to be that confident guy that approaches beautiful women, but inhibitions stop you.
The secret on how to attract women is simple, the first thing is to change your mindset, if you want to know how to pick up girls in the nicest possible way, you need to have a good long chat with yourself, and tell yourself, I can approach any beautiful woman, I can make her smile and laugh, I am fun to be with, I know exactly what to say, and more importantly I know how to get girls.
To create a positive outlook you need to re-programm the mind, and this will make you attractive to any woman, ask yourself what kind of woman does not like a confident man? It is imperative that you learn to communicate, also get to know the art of flirting; this is a language that women love and understand.
Create sexual tension, this is a fine line, a delicate balance, but once you have learnt this skill you will be able to crack it, talking, flirting and creating sexual tension with beautiful women that is how to get a girlfriend.
There is no foolproof formula that can work on all girls; every girl is different with a unique personality, what one girl finds attractive in a guy may not be the same for other girls. How many times have you read advice in magazines etc. that to be presentable is a sure way to get that girl, and yet some scruffy guys manage to get the most ravishing girl, don't lose heart be assured that such cases are few and possible the scruffy guy has more to offer than the average guy.
It certainly pays to be presentable at all times there is obviously no need to go overboard and spend a huge sum of money on designer clothes and accessories, follow basic hygiene practices, dress well and smell good at all times, and mind your manners after all 'manners maketh the man'.
Believe in yourself and love you for what you are, get rid of any negative feelings about your self esteem and work on your problem areas, this attitude will not only help you in getting that girl it will also make you a better and more confident person.
A spokesman for Social Attraction Academy said "yes it´s all about self believe we can offer the shy guy help in how to achieve this".
For further information visit: http://www.socialattraction.co.uk