Mumbai, India (PressExposure) December 01, 2010 -- Dating workshop teaches men how to attract women and then how to sexually satisfy her in bed. The 2-day workshop teaches the basic techniques of approaching and flirting with women to create attraction, and specific sex techniques that give her the best chance of experiencing orgasm during love making.
If you give a woman too many compliments and make it obvious that you like her, her attraction for you dips; she may see you as friend material but not as lover material. On the other hand, if you tease her, accuse her of hitting on you, and keep her guessing about whether you like her, her attraction for you increases. These and more techniques for attracting women are taught at the 'Real Man' workshop conducted in cities across India.
"Within seconds of interacting with a woman she sees you as lover-type or a friend-type" says Shiva, conductor of the workshop, "unfortunately for 99% of men, they say and do things that get them instantly dumped in the friend category".
The 2-day workshop teaches men how to think, talk, dress, walk and approach women in a way that creates attraction. "When you first approach a woman, talk over your shoulder", says Shiva, "this is less intimidating to her, and it shows that you're not yet heavily invested in the conversation, which makes her view you as a challenge, and that's attractive".
Attendees learn the correct way of approaching and talking to women by practicing on beautiful female models at the workshop.
And this is not just for young single men. Even married men need to keep their wife attracted. "Just because she is married to you, it does not automatically create attraction inside her,"says Shiva, "a man must say and do things to keep his wife attracted to him, even after marriage."
While day 1 is all about how to attract women, day 2 is about how to make love to a woman the way she prefers.
What is the way women prefer?
In survey after survey, women complain about the same thing: that men are too mechanical, too predictable, too much in a rush to get to her most intimate areas. What a woman really wants is that her whole body be treated as one erogenous zone. What she truly desires is whole-body love making.
What is taught at the workshop?
Day 2 begins with basic sex education about male & female anatomy and sexually transmitted diseases. Then, progressing to explicit techniques for foreplay and sex. Also taught are the subtler aspects of sex like afterplay and how to give her the perfect footrub.
What else, besides techniques?
The workshop also explains the differences in the way men and women approach sex. For instance, most men can enter the bedroom and instantly turn off the outside world. But most women cannot. Even as you kiss her, she can still be thinking of events outside the bedroom. Only when the majority of thoughts in her brain are quieted, can a woman become truly aroused. "Sometimes, doing the dishes can be more effective foreplay than a 12-course dinner. And I'm only half-joking here", says Shiva.
Do men really need such training ?
Despite the progress we have made towards sexual equality, women are still raised to be sexually passive. As a result, young men feel pressured to know everything about sex. Few parents discuss the intricacies of sex with their sons. At school, any sex education is restricted to sperm, eggs, STDs, importance of abstinence and perhaps the various contraceptives. While there is a need for this, there is also a need to provide adult men with frank information on how to please a woman sexually.
When and where are the workshops held?
The workshops are conducted in the cities New Delhi, Bangalore, Chennai, Hyderabad, Mumbai, Indore and Chandigarh. Details about the workshop content, frequently asked questions, venue, fee and the next available dates are listed on the company's website http://www.realman.in/2day
The workshop is conducted by a certified sex educator, and is for men over 21 years. As a workshop attendee has remarked on the website, "This is what every dad should be teaching his son". But until dads start teaching this, men can learn this at the Real Man Workshop.